Friday, July 06, 2007
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Hahax. Srsly, nth much to blog abt lah right..led a boring life the past wk. Bt one thing i hve been pondering on was dis: To be nice or nt?
Okay. Some ppl might think it is dumb bt hey, it has happened many tyms to me ok. So ya, when we decide to be nice ppl, it is mainly cuz we wanna try to avoid conflicts wif ppl arnd us n juz make their day. Bt.. sometyms, when u try to be nice, ppl start taking advantage of u. Ppl suan u. Ppl push the workload to u. Ppl strat bullying u.
So sometyms, in dis case, we find dat perhaps we shld nt be so nice. Bt alas! When dis happens, usually ppl will start despising u n avoiding u lyk plague for the monster u've become. N then u start to lose close friends n feel isolated. Things aren't as easy anymore. Teamwork becomes hard n u hate the part when everyone else walks tgt happily n ignores ur presence. U feel lonely, u feel cold, u feel hated, u feel unwelcomed, u feel lyk a burden.
So, to be nice, u get bullied, to be nt nice (mean or someting), ppl despise u. Then, wad is the perfect solution? The perfect balance? @ least for me, hving lived a long 14 years, i've been pathetic enuf to nt find a solution yet! I mean, things juz go lyk rollercoasters n u cant ctrl. Half of u says dis while the other says dat. In the end, both ways, u get hurt. Is dat wad we shld seek in peers? In life? Is dis the way we shld live? Is dis juz a puzzle?
Okay. Dat is wad i hve to say. N i find dat sometyms we shld juz mind our own business n juz let things be. Maybe we cant please everyone. Bt wad abt the majority? These things r way to complex n confusing.. n I am juz lost. Yes, lost.
C yas! Do tag kaez? Thx =)
Random quote: "____ admits dat she has lost her *********y! " How mean can we get lah right.
Hahax. Srsly, nth much to blog abt lah right..led a boring life the past wk. Bt one thing i hve been pondering on was dis: To be nice or nt?
Okay. Some ppl might think it is dumb bt hey, it has happened many tyms to me ok. So ya, when we decide to be nice ppl, it is mainly cuz we wanna try to avoid conflicts wif ppl arnd us n juz make their day. Bt.. sometyms, when u try to be nice, ppl start taking advantage of u. Ppl suan u. Ppl push the workload to u. Ppl strat bullying u.
So sometyms, in dis case, we find dat perhaps we shld nt be so nice. Bt alas! When dis happens, usually ppl will start despising u n avoiding u lyk plague for the monster u've become. N then u start to lose close friends n feel isolated. Things aren't as easy anymore. Teamwork becomes hard n u hate the part when everyone else walks tgt happily n ignores ur presence. U feel lonely, u feel cold, u feel hated, u feel unwelcomed, u feel lyk a burden.
So, to be nice, u get bullied, to be nt nice (mean or someting), ppl despise u. Then, wad is the perfect solution? The perfect balance? @ least for me, hving lived a long 14 years, i've been pathetic enuf to nt find a solution yet! I mean, things juz go lyk rollercoasters n u cant ctrl. Half of u says dis while the other says dat. In the end, both ways, u get hurt. Is dat wad we shld seek in peers? In life? Is dis the way we shld live? Is dis juz a puzzle?
Okay. Dat is wad i hve to say. N i find dat sometyms we shld juz mind our own business n juz let things be. Maybe we cant please everyone. Bt wad abt the majority? These things r way to complex n confusing.. n I am juz lost. Yes, lost.
C yas! Do tag kaez? Thx =)
Random quote: "____ admits dat she has lost her *********y! " How mean can we get lah right.